You hate spam. Good. Your customers hate it too.


Hey Reader,

Founder recently told me: "I don't do outreach because I hate spam. I don't want to be that guy."

I don't sell outreach services. I am not even an expert on outreach. But I couldn't move past it.

This is one of the most self-limiting beliefs in the early stage. It’s what keeps brilliant founders broke.

They confuse Spam and Outreach. They are not synonyms.

  • Spam is lazy, mass, and self-centered. It’s a communication that says, "I need to sell."
  • Outreach is researched, specific, and buyer-centered. It’s a message that says, "I noticed you have this specific, expensive problem."

The difference is intent and relevance.

I myself have reacted positively to being cold-reached several times — not because the email was clever, but because the message was relevant to a problem I was actively trying to solve.

Your customers hate irrelevant noise. But they love a relevant solution.

When you have a product that genuinely solves a painful problem — one that saves the buyer time, money, or headache — then your job is not to wait to be discovered. Your job is to make sure the right person sees it.

The Clarity Filter Insight

If you truly believe your product is a painkiller, then outreach is a service.
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Speak soon,
— Dmitry

P.S. Send this to your friend who thinks spam equals email. They might not read it though...

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